Here are a few questions that have come up about the Date to Save Missionary Dating Ministry...
Doesn't God look down on missionary dating and tells us to not be "yoked with unbelievers"?
I looked up yoked, and the dictionary says it's a "A crossbar with two U-shaped pieces that encircle the necks of a pair of oxen or other draft animals working together." I would never encourage anybody to do this on a date... I think the thing that is more important is that we should use our talents for God. If you're really good at dating, or just really really good looking, then you should use that to bring souls to God.
Should you date one person until he comes to Christ, or should you date lots of people?
Jesus told us to reach the "outermost parts of the world." I mean, I'm not going to fly to Kenya and date some guy who eats worms, but I think for me, "outermost parts of the world" means all the hot guys that live around me here in Fremont, California. But, God told me not to be a polygamist, so the goal would be to dump your boyfriend before witnessing to your next one. If you follow
my tips, you should have no problem!
Are you available to date? I think you're hot.
First of all, God made me hot. Second of all, how would you know a hot girl based on one picture? I'm so much better looking that that. Thanks for the offer, but I don't date anyone I meet online. So, if you're emailed me, that automatically counts you out of my prospects, unless you are cuter than Matthew McConaughey and aren't a Christian. And you're not. And aren't.
What happens if the person I am dating becomes a Christian?
Praise God!!! That hasn't happened to me yet (still just planting seeds!), but you have two choices: Dump him and start dating a better-looking nonbeliever... or keep dating the person you're with now. I'd just see how hot he (or she) is and base the decision on that. The Bible says "man looks at the outward appearance; God looks at the heart." We're definitely not God, so just decide if your date is hot enough for you (after praying about it, of course).
I think I'm in love, but I don't think my boyfriend is going to become a Christian... What do I do?
This happens all the time... but here's a failproof solution: just tell him that you're going to date Jesus for a while. This will help you get your priorities straight while you look for another hot guy to date, and it will show your ex-boyfriend how much Jesus means to you. What a great witness!
I believe in the Date to Save Ministry... what can I do to help?
Well, first of all, date people and bring them to Christ! Also, as the Holy Spirit leads you, you can show your support by wearing a
Date to Save t-shirt.
Do you have a comment? You can email me at hotforjesus@datetosave.com and I'll see if I can help. If I can't, don't expect a reply (I'm a busy person with all this dating ministry stuff!)... just remember that I love you with the Love of the Lord.